I learned a clever acronym from an experienced police Sargent to help keep cool when some bad guy is trying to push your button during an arrest, confrontation or any investigation.
Quit Taking It Personal!
Whatever they person is saying about you (or your mother), remember: it ain’t really about you!
He doesn’t care about you. He doesn’t even know you!
You’re just the security guard, loss prevention officer or private investigator standing between him and his dope, stolen merchandise, scammed workers compensation check or other thing to feed his addition or lazy lifestyle.
It ain’t about you. He just wants his thing as easy as he can get it.
So when he’s mouthing off to you, Quit Taking It Personal!
Stay clam, be the pro that you are, do your job and go home to you life that is immeasurably better than his!
And, as always…
Do the right thing, even if it’s the hard thing.
Committed to your success,
Larry Kaye, P.I.
P.S. – And, of course, don’t miss my special report titled… If You Want To be a Private Investigator Give Up… Unless You Do These Three Things. You can get it right here…